You are in
charge of your health. Many of the
decisions you make every day have an impact on your health, wellness and
ultimately your quality of life. There
are some aspects of your health that cannot be altered or are outside your
control. Such as, family history, genes,
and age. But, by-in-large living a
healthy lifestyle and choosing wellness are within reach for most of us.
Try this
exercise. Stand tall and look boldly in the
mirror, do you like what you see? Look
at your reflection. Consider whether or
not you have a health behavior, a positive or negative health practice or
attitude, you would like to modify or change completely. Perhaps you want to lose or gain weight or
develop muscle strength or flexibility.
Maybe you want to quit smoking or moderate your alcohol intake. Whatever
health behavior modifications you want to make, think through some strategies
you might incorporate into your lifestyle that may help create the adjustment. For example, develop a list of the pros and
cons surrounding the behavior you would like to alter. Ask yourself, “Why do I behave this way? How does it benefit me? How does it harm me?” Challenge yourself to answer these questions
honestly and bravely. Intentionally move
towards determining why the behavior reigns in your life. Analyze your discipline tactics. Where are you weak in discipline and where
are you strong? Take a good look at the
busyness surrounding your daily life.
Are you using your time efficiently?
Talk to someone who can support you in your attempts to enhance behavior
modification.
Many, when
doing this mirror exercise, are challenged to change their level of physical
fitness. It is true that the higher the level of physical fitness, the better
the overall physical wellness will be. Physical wellness provides the ability
to live life fully, with vitality, free of injury and illness. We all want that! But getting there, becoming physically fit and
staying physically strong is demanding. It
begins with choice and ends with discipline.
Setting
goals and developing a personalized plan will help you get started and keep you
on track. Here are some ways to do that.
1.
Start a health journal – Keep a record of the
way you live. Activities often happen
without much thought. It is time to
start paying attention! Write down:
a.
What activities you participated in
b.
Where and when they happened
c.
What you were doing
d.
How you were feeling at the time
2.
Analyze patterns in the data you collect
a.
What triggers, prompts, or initiates overeating
or poor food choices?
b.
What thoughts or behaviors or relationships surround
those triggers?
c.
When does exercise best fit into your day?
d.
What triggers prompt skipping exercise?
e.
Note connections between your feelings and external
cues such as time of day, locations, situations, relationships, etc.
3.
Set SMART goals – Goals that are too challenging
can sabotage change. Make them:
a.
Specific – Avoid being vague.
b.
Measurable – If goals are quantifiable they are
easier to track
c.
Attainable – Set them within your physical
limits
d.
Realistic – Be real! - Most goals worth
achieving take time
e.
Time Bound – Give yourself a reasonable amount
of time to reach your goal
4.
Develop a strategy – Create a plan of action
a.
Identify resources that can help you - Gather
what you need
b.
Modify your environment – Control the triggers
and reach towards the targets
c.
Control related influences, habits, or
relationships that sabotage
d.
Reward yourself – Pat yourself on the back for a
job well done each time you step closer to the goal
e.
Make a personal contract and sign it with a
witness – Accountability works!
Even with
the best intentions and the greatest efforts there will be obstacles along the
way. Don’t be surprised by them. They are inevitable and they are frequently
innocent. They show up as a late night
out, making getting up the next morning to exercise next to impossible. Or they materialize as a holiday treat on
your desk begging you to taste just a little. They may come in the form of a phone call or a
conversation or a craving or a bad day.
Even though obstacles are inevitable, they are not an excuse to give
up. In fact, it’s a good idea to expect
problems, to work time for glitches into your plan, and to occasionally step
back and analyze how you’re doing.
Go back to
the mirror. Stand tall, look boldly into
the eyes of your reflection and analyze your progress with your very own self
looking back at you. Reconfirm why you
want to change the health behavior that got you here in the first place. And give yourself a break. Give yourself some grace. Don’t quit when the plan takes an unforeseen
turn. Regroup. Life happens.
Every new day, following a day of disappointments and dissatisfactions,
is a good day for a do-over. These
setbacks are reasons to overcome not give up.
Stay with it.
Here are
some ways to do that.
1.
Take a good hard look at your social influences
– Are the people you’re counting on really supporting you? If they come up short in support, connect
with others who will be more encouraging.
2.
Commit – You won’t make real progress until your
inner passion leads you to make lasting change.
3.
If your plan is not working, modify it – if you’re
falling behind in your running schedule for instance, maybe it is because you
don’t like running. An aerobics class
may suit you better.
4.
Be alert to games you might be playing with
yourself.
a.
Don’t procrastinate - Start. Go.
Do.
b.
Don’t make excuses – Rationalization stops
forward progress.
c.
Don’t blame others or yourself – Blaming is a
way to take the focus off the real problem.
Denying responsibility for your actions removes your power to change.
5.
Manage your stress – Stress is real. It could be temporary like a cold or a term
paper or it could be ongoing. If you
have hit the proverbial wall, look at the sources of your stress. You may want to alter your plan before
strengthening your efforts.
The first
attempts at making behavioral change may not go past the mirror exercise. But, at least you have started the inner
dialogue and have begun to take personal responsibility for making important modifications. Remember, you are in charge of your
health! You can make change a priority. Once you’ve started, don’t stop. Look forward not back. Choose to live your life fully with vitality,
vigor and intention. You can take
charge of your health in a dramatic and meaningful way, ultimately forever
affecting the quality of your life.